By: Ruby Woo
It was like an epiphany… I slouched back in my chair but quickly shifted. My feminine energy stood alert!
“How did I over look this shit?” I asked myself.
He’d been on the other line of my iPhone 6s for about 3 minutes and 26 seconds and all I heard was, “Babe you know I like spending time with you but me and my man’s and dem got plans.”
I quickly cleared my throat and responded, “Oh Damon, I understand now. But I’m not sure you can even be honest with yourself.”
Him: “Hmmmm. What you mean?”
Me: “How might I word this….a watered plant grows. Your appetite for male companionship is greater than your desire to even have a night out with who you claim to be your beautiful girlfriend? And to think, I hadn’t noticed!
Him: “The fuck you tryna say!?”
Me: “I’m really just drawing inference from my observations. Can you answer this?…”
I stopped mid-sentence and wrestled with the possibilities of my man desiring the energy, time and attention of another man more than he desires mine. I needed a moment; my head began to shake.
I took a deep breath…1…2…3…4…5…
His voice boomed through my speaker.
“Yo, I know you not implying I’m sweet!!!!”
Me: “I’m saying the more time and energy you give to something, or someone in this matter, we begin to naturally become inquisitive… and sometimes even lustttttt….”
I was cut off by the loud bass in his voice.
Him: ” Bitch….”
to be continued….but are you ignoring the signs?
Ladies : Have you ever questioned why your man prefers to spend time with his male friends over you… but swears he’s faithful? Let’s talk!!!
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